Catching Up

Coming Soon - Book Launch

Happy Fall. I hope you are doing well and taking a little time to enjoy the weather before it gets too cold.

It's been months since I sent my last newsletter, so I want to catch you up on my latest news before I continue and offer some takeaways at the end.

I’ve had a busy year with one major goal: publishing my book. I thought it was time to check back in and give you a sense of what that has entailed, just in case you are curious or have thought about writing your own book.

First of all, I have a new respect for anyone who has personally put pen to paper and written a 200-or-so-page book. It has taken a lot longer than I thought it would!

My route, ultimately, was to work with a boutique hybrid publisher here in Connecticut. Jenn T. Grace, owner of Publish Your Purpose, has built a process and a team that supports anyone who wants to publish a non-fiction book but doesn’t want to go the self-publish or traditional routes. I highly recommend her new book, Publish Your Purpose, which gives you invaluable insight into the process of writing and publishing.

By hiring PYP, I’ve had access to a wonderful team of editors, typesetters, a cover artist, a project manager to keep me on track, and personal support from Jenn herself. I’ve had guidance on categories and keywords, future tie-ins to my business, and so much more. My developmental editor, Blue Dulac, helped me find the right rhythm and order for the book. We worked so well together that I hired them to work on my graphics, as well. (I’ve inserted a few of them at the bottom.)

Little did I know, way back in March, that it would take so long to shape my book into its current state, but boy am I glad I didn’t try to do this on my own. It is still mostly my words - but with improved organization, better grammar, and more concise language. I recommend working with a developmental editor if you ever plan to publish anything. I feel like I’ve taken a few college-level writing courses.

Understand Yourself. Look Yourself in the mirrow

Tying what I’ve learned to my book:

  1. Focusing on one large goal meant I had to limit other tasks (like newsletter writing). But that was how I chose to keep some balance and less stress in my life.

  2. One section of my book is called Understanding Yourself. What I know about me is that I do better with a support team. I also have a hard time following a linear track (outline, write, adjust, edit) and focusing. (ADHD?) This is part of Step 1 of my Action Cycle: Awareness. Despite these personal challenges and awareness, I persisted.

  3. Step 2 of my Action Cycle is Acceptance. What I accept now is that I need to start with a clear outline and develop structure and support to keep me focused and accountable - for anything I do. It’s OK to admit my skill gaps and get help for them. Progress, not perfection!

  4. Step 8 of the Action Cycle is Reflection. Reflection includes celebration, evaluation, and determining the next steps. I plan to celebrate the book launch with several online and in-person events (to be revealed soon). As I look back on the writing journey, I know I learned a lot and am proud of getting to completion. (Pre-launch of the book will start in December.) My next steps include launching a website to support my book, which will include monthly new content and events, a book club circle, and a membership option to support people through the journey of Doubtful to Decisive and beyond.

How can you apply this to your experiences?

  • Is there a BIG project or task you are committed to?

  • Are you aware of skill gaps and want to find resources?

  • What do you accept about your journey that will help you move forward?

  • As you begin to reflect and deepen your awareness, how might it help you assess options, plan, take action, and get to completion?

Please let me know if I can support you in any way. Watch for the upcoming free events and the pre-launch book specials.

Thanks for listening and for all your words of encouragement over the last year. The finish line is just around the corner!

Monica

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